Through father and son, we enter the world of mental illness in personal and painful ways. However, memoirs are now common, and suffering is often their métier. What distinguishes this book are the plethora of lessons learned, none delivered in didactic or pedantic ways but instead through narrative and experience. I recommend this book to families and mental health practitioners because it teaches us 1) that what we often see as denial (“there is nothing wrong with me”) is a means by which a person defends his or her identity and grasps to maintain the integrity of his or her very being; 2) that moments of lucidity in people with mental illness where they see the gravity of their illness and its consequences on their lives may be impossible for them to endure; 3) that mental illness can induce a state of idiosyncratic narcissism in those affected, in which concern about the effect of their illness on their families and others seems to vanish; 4) how marijuana and other mind-altering drugs erode what little protection against mental illness a constitutionally vulnerable person may possess; 5) how families can be seduced into unaffordable financial investments to care for their loved one when, in fact, the care that they may buy is often no better, and many times worse, than what a good public sector service system can provide; 6) that families that communicate with others about their struggle discover that they are not alone, which can be essential in continuing to be able to provide support over a lifetime to a loved one with a mental illness; 7) that intramuscular administration of antipsychotics for some people who will not take oral medications may be the only way to build a foundation of sanity, on which critical psychosocial interventions can occur; 8) that clozapine, which is proven to be more efficacious for treatment-resistant schizophrenia, is substantially underutilized; and 9) that we have yet to establish the community equivalent of the asylums of the 1800s, where people with serious mental illness can have safe and supportive communities in which recovery can take place.